Gilbert · 2024-12-17 · work_session
Study Session - 12/17/2024 5:15:00 PM
Summary
Key points from the meeting
- Task‑force recap & recommendations – The Community Engagement Task Force, convened in June 2024, produced 108 ideas and distilled them into 12 actionable recommendations grouped into Education, Awareness, and Resources (e.g., School Ambassador Program, parenting classes, expanded SRO presence, teen‑led social‑media campaign, coalition formation, dedicated web page, and youth events).
- Council response – All council members (Mayor, Council Member Tikki, Council Member Bonani, Vice‑Mayor Anderson, etc.) expressed support and appreciation for the work. No formal vote or decision was taken during the session; the presentation was informational.
- Next steps highlighted by the task force – The task force will draft a final report that incorporates council feedback and will outline phased implementation (short‑, mid‑, and long‑term timelines). Funding opportunities (grants, local support) were mentioned as potential avenues for executing the recommendations.
- Discussion on SRO and teen perspectives – Assistant Chief Ble noted the need for continued partnership with police, while council members and youth representatives emphasized the importance of teen voices and the desire for more teen‑centered programs rather than simply increasing police Council remarks on community partnership – Members stressed the necessity of collaboration with schools, parents, and community organizations, and highlighted the role of the city’s youth advisory committee in shaping future initiatives.
Brief overview
The Town of Gilbert’s Study Session on December 17, 2024 focused on the Community Engagement Task Force’s recommendations to reduce teen violence. The task force presented a comprehensive set of 12 recommendations, covering education, awareness, and resources, and received enthusiastic, supportive feedback from the council. While no formal vote or decision was made during the session, the council expressed clear intent to review the recommendations, explore funding options, and begin phased implementation---
Follow‑up actions / deadlines
| Action | Owner / Group | Deadline / Status |
|---|---|---|
| Produce final report incorporating council feedback | Task Force (lead: Natasha Ash) | Soon (exact date TBD) |
| Council review & decision on implementation plan | Town Council | To be scheduled in next council meeting |
| Explore and secure grant funding for teen events and programs | Task Force & City Finance | Ongoing; targeted for next fiscal year |
| Establish East Valley coalition for teen violence prevention | Task Force, Police Dept., Schools | Initiation during next quarter |
| Expand School Resource Officer (SRO) presence to charter & private schools | Police Department | Pilot proposal by Q3 2025 |
| Create dedicated teen‑violence web page and social‑media strategy | Parks & Recreation / IT | Launch by Q4 2024 |
| Implement School Ambassador Program and related training | Schools & Task Force | Pilot in select schools by Fall 2025 |
| Organize teen‑focused events (game nights, mobile recreation, teen nights) | Parks & Recreation, Task Force | First events in Q1 2025 |
| Provide parenting workshops and education on teen violence | Recreation Center & Libraries | Program roll‑out beginning Q2 2025 |
| Monitor and evaluate implementation (short, mid, long term) | Task Force & Council | Quarterly reports starting Q1 2025 |
These actions will guide the city as it moves from the task force’s recommendations to concrete, community‑based initiatives aimed at reducing teen violence.
Transcript
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e e is it 5 it is 5:15 my oh no sorry my clock on here says but my phone only says 514 good evening welcome to the Gilbert Town Council study session for December 17th 2024 I will call this meeting to order we only have one item on our agenda that's the presentation and discussion of recommendations of the community engagement task force on the focus area related to teen violence I see Melanie dystra headed to the podium good evening Melanie good evening mayor and council members I am Melanie DEA the volunteer and Community Resources manager for the town of Gilbert and I'm one of the staff Leons to the community engagement task force and I am here tonight and excited to uh bring forth these recommendations um our uh chair uh Natasha Ash will actually be presenting the specific recommendations to you but prior to that I'm going to take you through kind of a little bit of how we got here today so if you remember on April 16th the Town Council recommended the recruitment of members for this task force and on June 4th you appointed 11 members and four alternates um which also included five of the teens uh we do have a few folks in our audience today are part of our task force not everyone could make it this evening but we do have a bit of representation um but we also um took direction from Council that we wanted to make sure we reached into the community as well well and worked with our schools and our Police Department so six um additional advisory members were put on the task force and part of our discussions to this point uh we did kick off our first meeting June 10th and we did have a culminating meeting on December 9th um regarding this um as you mentioned the focus area was the teen violence and the journey that they went through is we did have some board member training um education and compression planning um a little more specifics on that uh the board member training as you've all been through is that open meeting law so fun so fabulous uh but very important to make sure they understood their roles and responsibilities and how a task force worked um but then we jumped right into education and this was an opportunity for us to make sure that they had background information understood what the town was already doing uh what different areas were um engaged in these efforts um so we did have the police department come in they really um gave an education about the school resource officer program the S I gave PD data they talked about our youth and adult resources program uh we o had a presentation by mcao about the report um report don't repost campaign uh we also heard about the youth survey results that came out um of all the schools that participated the presentation was by the ASU Professor Dustin Pardini which was very educational we also brought in Parks and Recreation so they could talk about what we were currently doing with teens kind of what their Vision was for the future what they had already been hearing ing so that they um could have an understanding in that realm as well um and then we also um heard back from Gilbert py about their youth engagement efforts as you know we' brought on a youth engagement officer and looking at what that looked like some of the day-to-day operations and inunity engagement efforts that they had been doing um they also got a packet of kind of teen resources um and then once all of that was done we did jump into our compression planning and uh this was conducted by Kathleen dallar which uh we do a huge thank you to her as well um but compression planning it was an opportunity to do kind of strategic planning through key discussions of the um of the process um but it was presentations we did breakout sessions they did individual idea development um but this also led to being able to do dot exercises as well as time frame identification but the really the big piece was the impact effort Matrix so this is really making sure that when those recommendations are moving forward they're like well how big impact will this make and what's the effort to make it there is it worth us bringing it forward do we really think it's going to have the um information we want and that led to those final recommendations and again these were focused around our key areas that follows the um past Task Force Through the educational opportunities awareness and resources with again the outcome goal of promoting awareness of the issues identifying resources and providing education of teen violence and again they kept in consideration as you heard we also wanted to make sure we understood the time frame so was it going to be a shortterm midterm long-term effort what kind of resources may be needed um collaboration as we know this is a community effort not just through the town so we had those discussions as well and so where's my my little thingies is not working now point it different quick hello okay maybe just Advance a slide for me if you can okay so with that uh we will be talking now about the action recommendations for uh the teen violence there were 108 ideas that the task force actually did come up with um there were some overarching themes um just in the educational space there were 30 different ideas that moved forward that came forward to be discussed um about parenting classes were teen education business Community surveys SRO that was definitely some of the overarching themes um in Awareness there were 41 different ideas that came forward um a lot about information sharing Parks and Recreation engagement social media campaign and cross community efforts and then 37 different ideas for resources um really looking at recreational options safe spaces program support and Staffing and of these they did narrow it down to um a final list of 12 recommendations that will be presented um in summary here by our chair Natasha Ash so I will let her come up to do that and it works again so yay all right thank you Melanie good afternoon mayor and Town Council I am honored to be here to be able to um present these recommendations that the task force have come up with um we worked a lot this year and we done a lot of important work um the issue of teen violence we know is a very sensitive topic and it's not one that only affects our youth but it affects our entire community and we know that it requires a collective effort and so we knew that coming into this work was going to be hard um there were going to be some agreements some disagreements but we got through it and we knew that we were going to have to look at this issue from all different angles we got to learn a lot about the initiatives that the town of Gilbert has already taken and is taken to address this issue and we hope to offer up some more promising recommendations through our work we've put together a set of recommendations that we hope will help lay the foundation for Meaningful change um and Foster collaboration and ultimately help build a safer Community for us all as Melanie mentioned the recommendations are split up into three parts the first part being education the second being awareness and the third being resources many of them are scaled for time frame meaning um short mid long and this is just how we decided how long it would take to implement many of these recommendations so the first being education um one of my favorite quotes is by Nelson Mandela and he says that education is the most powerful weapon which we can use to change the world and in this instance I believe that we can use education to help change our community um and bring about more a positive impact and one of the ideas that we came up with is the implementation of the school ambassador program so we the task force recommend partnering to establish or support a school Ambassador Club program that involves Junior High and high school representatives from each grade level the school ambassador program would operate similarly to Student Government councils um where students will run for leadership positions within the school now why we feel like this type of leadership work teen leadership works because teens have more of a unique understanding of their peers um their struggles whether it's bullying social media pressures or general societal pressures um and they are better position than adults to recognize the early signs of violence when educated in conflict because they experience it themselves the school ambassador program we believe helps to empower students to lead and by empowering students to take on leadership roles we believe it gives them a place and everyone wants to feel like they have a place in their school and in society um it gives them something to do um we can leverage their influence to promote positive change within the schools and the Teen ambassadors can act as Trust voices and influence their peers to make more safer and responsible choices um and the last piece of the school ambassador program which I feel is more important because I'm pretty sure we were all influenced when we were in high school and middle school is the peer-to-peer impact um it's important because collectively I know that we are the average of the five people that we spend the most time with and this idea shows us that how much influence the peers have among each other so in the context of schools the peer influence is incredibly powerful um the next piece of the education is educational classes and so we the task force recommend offering or partnering to provide a range of educational classes workshops seminars something that's really hands on that helps people learn um at Gilbert recreation centers and libraries these programs are crucial because education helps us uncover what we might not be aware of um it offers insights to critical issues like teen violence and bullying um it helps us to identify identify the signs of teen violence um and when things are escalating and it will also help people to learn how to deescalate um and with better conflict resolution many may not fully understand these issues until they are truly faced with them and so we believe that education is one of the key aspects um this these classes would not just be for teens they would be for their families and anyone in the community that would love to come to them and the next piece of the educational classes um are classes for parents so we recommend exploring the possibility of mandating educational classes for parents whose teens have been involved in violent behavior um this is important because the parents do play a role and they are also at the front lines of their teens Behavior as well these classes would help the parents um to recognize the early warning signs and intervene effectively and prevent further violence um throughout our planning we learned a lot about about the Gilbert Youth and adult resource the G um within Gilbert PD and a lot about the diversion program and how they worked with the parents and the school districts and we felt like um it's an amazing program there are a couple of cracks it may not be as accessible for a lot of people in the community and resources like this um like classes they are more accessible um when um they're in the community in at safer locations the last part of the educational piece um is offer or partner um to provide education about laws and ordinances that in consequences of teen violence for both teens and adults the reason this is so important is because many people may not be aware of the current mandated laws or ordinances within the town and this is something that we identified early on when we were doing our planning this lack of awareness can lead to unintended violations so we have to find new ways to update and communicate this information information to the community um some of our teens were really great with the feedback they even offered the idea of being able to implement this information in school assemblies and that's a better way to get it uh to the students when they're in school so the goal is to raise awareness and help create a more law-abiding proactive Community where people are focused on safety and one of the ways to truly do that is to make sure our community is educated so that wraps up the educational piece and now we will move on to awareness um the next point is awareness and I believe that when people are more aware of something they are more likely to take responsibility for it or at least that is the goal and the Hope um so the first recommendation is the formation of the East Valley Coalition for teen violence preis prevention so we the task force recommend exploring the formation of a regional Coalition across East Valley to unite Community organizations schools local governments and law enforcements and a more coordinated effort to prevent teen violence the collaboration is the important piece of this because by working together these organizations can share resources knowledge and strategies to address teen violence and effectively more effectively and efficiently the resource sharing um within a coalition we can leverage Collective funding educational programs and support systems and this just ensures that no single organization is overwhelmed by the sh responsibility of preventing teen violence as I mentioned earlier this is a collective effort and so this collaboration is important um this is a very we feel like it's a very sustainable model um longterm because it creates a more unified and ongoing response to the challenges surrounding teen violence the next part of awareness is the web page development we the task force recommend creating a more dedicated web page on the town's website to keep the community informed about the ongoing efforts to reduce teen violence um this includes updates on curfew enforcement and other preventive measures and how well they are doing we currently like how there's a web page on the Gilbert um toown web page for the teen violence investigations which is critical for people to be able to follow up and stay AB breast of the current issues and investigations a web page of this magnitude does have a layer of transparency um and it would help to be more transparent on the community's efforts to show that Gilbert is tackling this face on this can also be done by setting smart goals for how the town will reduce teen violence and explain to the public how these will be measured because we all like numbers we all like stats and we like to see that something is working and how well it's working um this ongoing engagement could be for a page where uh residents come and share their thoughts their feedback and ask questions and stay engaged with the town's actions on teen violence prevention um a web page is accessible it's a central hub for resources and updates for all residents the next part of awareness is a social media campaign by teens and for teens so we the task force recommend supporting a social media campaign that's led by teens now we all love social media our teens love it a lot they're on it a lot and when used responsibly um it can do a lot of good um social media can be used to also spread a lot of bad we want to use this campaign to make sure that our teens are using it using social media responsibly so we recommend supporting the creation of a social media campaign that's led by teens to raise awareness about teen violence specifically in our communities um and promote non-violent behaviors among their peers the peer influence again um the teenagers are more likely to listen and be influenced by their peers rather than adults um a campaign LED by teens can speak directly to their experiences I'm making a message more relatable and impactful social media platforms like Tik Tok Instagram YouTube there are spaces where teens are already engaged so if we can leverage a campaign we can use these platforms to be to resonate and be more authentic um a social media campaign that's led by teens can also add a layer of empowerment so by involving teens in the development of this campaign and the execution we not only give them a voice but we do Empower them to take responsibility for their actions when they're in school when they're in their community and it just gives them that thought that they still have to be responsible and the messages on this social media campaign will always be targeted about the specific issues at hand in our community the last piece of awareness is the Parks and Recreation Partnerships so we the task force recommend strengthening our Partnerships between Parks and Recreation and local schools we need to get people more active in the community um if people don't know what's going on in the community then there's no way to be as active and the goal is to raise awareness of the availabil of the available Community programs um that can support teens and preventing and addressing violence not many people as we learned during our planning were aware at the amazing classes that the Park and Recreations had on their website um and they even have things planned for 2025 and it's so important that the community knows that these are available and with the program being with this type of program being integrated by visiting schools to in introduce to students the Community Resources we can ensure that the teens are aware of positive Outlets um and the support systems available to them the long-term impact for the Parks and Recreation Partnerships it helps to establish a stronger connection between schools and recreational programs um to provide teams with ongoing support the last piece of our recommendations our resources and this goes back to our teen ambassadors so the first piece was about education and it's more about our teen ambassadors being a educational peace with in their communities and their school and the resource part of the teen ambassador is focus on the support system that the teen ambassadors will need so our goal is to empower teen ambassadors so we the task force recommend creating a more comprehensive support system for these young leaders this includes regular quarterly meetings with Town officials to share progress on violence prevention efforts discuss challenges and solutions and provide feedback to improve engagement additionally we propose offering leadership training that equips them with conflict resolution skills so that they're able to translate this back within their schools um in peer Medi techniques the mentoring will also be a key with older teen ambassadors because they will be able to support the younger ones and build a more stronger peer driven Network the next part of our resources um is the school resource officers the sro's at campuses this is um a topic that was really interesting too because we got to learn a lot about how engaged the sro's are at the schools and where there are cracks within the SRO program and funding um it's we recommend looking at offering more SRO opportunities for charter schools and offering more SRO to uh more than one SRO per school um it's critical that every campus involving Junior High and high schools have access to qualified and trained SRO this include Charter and private schools when possible uh we did learn that the sro's and the schools are very involved and they work hard to Foster relationships with kids so they don't feel Afraid on campus um however we learned that this program does have some cracks specifically the SRO to kid ratio in school there's usually one SRO to hundreds of students and this is simply not enough um and the sro's do a lot within the community um for the schools um this is a resource because we also understand the financial aspect that schools will need to participate in for the funding we recommend partnering with local schools to expand the presence of SRO because these officers not only respond to incidents but they also build memorable relationships with students and create a safer more supportive environment um to support this we'll need ongoing funding and recruitment efforts to ensure that we attract qualified candidates and retain them in their vital roles we did learn that they are very trained for their position and we appreciated that a lot um the next part of our resources as events that include food we all love food and we're going to go where the food is at specifically our youth so we recommend with the task force recommend creating or partnering on a variety of Youth events to engage teens and fun supervised activities so these this can include game nights where teens can socialize in a friend funly environment um one of the things that we learned why planning is that teens they want somewhere to go whether it's late at night whether they are just getting out of school they need somewhere to go hang out and we want these places to be more safer and supervised so that all of their behavior um is monitored um so these events can include game nights field trips or a mobile Parks and Recreation programs with the mobile Parks and Recreation programs they can bring Sports arts and other activities directly to teen friendly locations specifically in underserved areas um free or red reduced food costs um should be provided at these events it's what we came up with to ensure accessibility um ensure that the teen feels excluded in included due do not feel excluded due to financial barriers we also brought up the idea of um having teen nights maybe on Friday nights and Saturday nights um so we recommend exploring the creation of tea nights at local recreation centers specifically on these nights um and these just these events will provide a fun and safe place for the teens to hang out and socialize in a more structured environment um some as we as I mentioned earlier a lot of the classes the educational classes we thought would be best to be held at these recreation centers so some of these classes with some food would be a great um implementation strategy as well with these events um we kind of tied it back to the collaboration with the schools and the Teen ambassadors so being able to partner with the schools and the Teen ambassadors is is very is a key um so we recommend working together to sponsor events or contests within the school Community incorporating teen leaders who can help engage their peers uh these collaborations can integrate youth can integrate youth events into existing school programs and build a sense of community between school life and extracurricular activities the teen ambassadors can take on a leadership roles in planning and promoting these events the last piece of our resource is using social media as a resource um so the role of social media as we know is very important we've seen a lot of things on social media good and bad um social media is a powerful tool of communication and it's only going to become more Progressive and so we can use it to connect with teens directly so we the task force recommend developing a comprehensive social media strategy that shares key information on teen violence prevention resources which we which Gilbert already has a lot of they just need to be more mainstream the local ordinances relevant to teens such as curfew laws or substance use regulations community events and activities teens can get involved in additionally we do want to empower teens to create and manage their own social media accounts um focused on positive messages and peer engagement this can include training programs um content creation branding and safety um by engaging the teen influencers is another important tactic by collaborating with local influencers we can amplify our message and even reach more teens to their Network so um we wanted to drive home the importance of reposting important um and responsible content throughout the throughout social media um as we heard a lot about the report don't repost campaign we want to report the risk behavior but we want to rep host the most important behaviors um so thank you mayor and Town Council for the consideration of these recommendations and I'll hand it back to Melanie thank you Natasha very well done did you take a breath during all of that because I was getting worried for [Laughter] you yes thank you very much you did an excellent job summarizing all the hard work that we did over it was a compressed time frame very um engaged group that we had participating um as as well as some of our outside providers as well so at this time we can take any questions or hear any feedback that you'd like to share at the moment thank you Melanie I'll go to council member tilky first um Melanie did you say the chief wanted to have a few words so then if there's not any what I'll do I'll just do this and then um I do want to just say a thank you to council member Tikki she was our Council and did a fantastic job leading us through this process providing information um as needed I also want to really thank Kathleen dollar who helped facilitate the compression planning it was a lot of work to get us to this end product in a short time frame did a great job um Don Prince as our staff Le is on as well and then as you can see I just wanted to highlight all of the members that participated um as part of this group and we had great attendance throughout the all of the meetings and then really also our advisory members you were able to let us um have some folks come in to also provide a voice from the schools and our police department and they did a great job as well well which I do want to now just give a moment to assistant chief ble um as part of kind of our PD group um and let him say a few words as well good evening mayor and Council I just wanted to say a few words about the community engagement task force and I would first like to begin by thanking every member of the community engagement task force for all of their hard work over the past 6 months what an impressive group of community members coming together together and sharing their dedication to finding solutions to teen violence in our community the G the group convened in June and truly Rose to the challenge of addressing this complex issue the police department has been involved in every step of the process and and uh we understand that the work is not complete with the opportunity to be present during the listening sessions during which we heard from our community and gain valuable information on how we could continue to work together on engaging Our Youth and empowering them tonight as a listen to the action plan and the recommendations education awareness and resources I want to emphasize that we as a police department understand the job is not over we look forward to continuing to work together hand inand with our community especially our youth working together and I'll say one more time working together we can build a safer more supportive environment for the Future Leaders of our community our youth thank you again for your dedication and partnership to this important topic and we look forward to the next steps thank you Chief ble Melanie can you ask the members well I'll just ask them anybody that's here present this evening that was on the community engagement task force will you please stand thank you we know that this was a very compressed process and you had to first of all go through the open meeting law training which I know can be daunting and horrifying at the same time time so I just wanted to say thank you for participating for being willing I know that we met you all when we did your interviews but be willing to put in the time that you have over the last five or six months or so so thank you so much let's give them a round of applause and Natasha especially for taking on the role of chair I know that that is not easy so a big thank you to you you can be seated thank you council member tilki would you like to go yes thank you I I know I'm hoping that will have some comments and uh questions as we go along but I'm probably going to repeat a little bit of what's been said but first and foremost um just a reminder that this is the pr preliminary report and so the feedback that we received from the council will be included in a final report that will come to us soon to you guys soon I should say um I I wanted to acknowledge the amazing task force that we had and they were all committed interactive and participated in open and Frank dialogue I couldn't be proud of their prouder of their time together as I mentioned during my reports to the council twice a month uh the town of Gilbert cannot solve this issue alone this is a community issue and we need to respect our jurisdictions and work with our long-standing partners like our schools public charter and private we can accomplish so much if we work together but the town and the schools will never be successful if parents aren't engaged and accountable or if our students aren't willing to be part of the solution we've outlined many opportunities to help parents and students be connected tonight I hope that the community will Embrace these recommendations as phase one of our lifelong efforts for a safe Community for all and I Echo what assistant chief mentioned as well um I when you think about all the work that into this in the time that was given I I I want to say a huge thank you to Melanie she got us through this and you know we we threw this at her in the middle of her trying to finalize everything from our our other task force which you'll hear more about this evening but she's been a a a superstar and wonderful to work with Don Judy and Ashley from our uh town clerk's office um were there with us the entire time and um I appreciate it Kathleen dor is one of the most busy women in the town of Gilbert yet she continues to stop and give to important um efforts like this so huge thank you for that and you know it's been a privilege to work with this task force and um the the larger one as well and I just want to thank you for the opportunity a couple things I just wanted to mention um that the the teens led the this discussion on the student ambassadors in the social media they really brought this um topic forward the entire group really vetted it out and we understand there's some guard whs that will need to be put in place and they do too but they're very excited at having teen voices heard within their schools and within their community and so I hope that we'll explore that as time goes on um and I have been approached in the past of people interested in providing some Grant dollars if we're going to do some of these events for teens and so if we choose to move forward with that I think we can have some money that will help us take care of that and provide those safe places for teens to gather um and Emily with uh the police department our youth um coordinator was able to be Emily's out sick tonight oh okay I'm looking for her I like where is she um anyway she was able to participate in this conversation with us as well and was part of our task force so with that I want to turn it over to you I hope you have lots of questions and thank you very much council member bonani thank you Madame mayor um I think when we started the um Team violence subcommittee our our hopes were that we would end today with what we have seen from you guys um I appreciate the hard work real deep analysis of the issues and and the overall compassing solutions that you came up with I really really like the um the part about the uh events for youth I think we need those things uh and the um support of the SRO and the Teen ambassadors um I I look forward to hopefully bring some of these some of these things forward and watch them grow um over the next year or so vice mayor Anderson uh thank you so much Natasha Melanie and the whole task force great job um I will be going back as council member banani mentioned we uh had those listening sessions the subcommittee in which we just received feedback from the community and told them that we would work on Solutions based on the feedback that we get from them and so I'm looking forward to look taking a look at my notes on that and comparing that but what I can see right now seems to be right on with what they were um asking us to do in those subcommittee meetings so very well done and uh thank you so much any other comments seeing none I'll just say that um I have the advantage of having mayor's youth advisory committee and you have had a couple of members of my teens on in the in your uh Community engagement task force and they're um smart as can be but I took took the opportunity in April to sit down with last year's group before they graduated and I came in in jeans and a t-shirt and sneakers and I sat with them and I said let's just talk I think we've spent the past four months talking about you but I want to talk to you and I want to hear from you and so we talked about sro's being on school campuses and what they think about that and did they think that they needed more and they said no they said we would feel uncomfortable if we had more and now I'm going to say I had 32 students students in that group I had probably 28 of them present that night from 14 different high schools so we covered the gamut of district schools private schools Charter Schools Gilbert schools Chandler schools like we covered the gamut and they said they would feel more uncomfortable if they had SRO in their more SRO in their schools which surprised me but they said when you put more police in it says we have problems that was their logic for it they don't feel unsafe they don't feel they didn't feel unsafe at home they didn't feel unsafe at school these are the things that I heard from them I just asked them straight out questions um they hadn't heard about teen violence prior to Preston Lord one boy said he had heard about some fights that was it out of all the kids that were present that night um they they love where they go to school they love where they live they love their friends but one thing that you said Natasha and I wrote it down it was early in your comments and I wrote down we're the average of the five people that we spend the most time with right and I think as adults older adults up here my friend group has changed over the years it's changed in the past four or five years and I and when you said that I thought who are who are I five right um who am I with the most and how does that reflect on me and as teens they don't learn that early enough right sometimes you have to break up with your friends sometimes you have to even as adults I've had to break up with friends it sounds weird but I've had to break up with girlfriends because it just wasn't working the relationship just wasn't working so those are things that you learn as you go on in life but that was one thing that really caught me but I just wanted to share a couple of the things that the teens had told me in that little session that we did together because again I thought that we had been talking about them a lot but I hadn't been hearing from them and so um it was important to share that before I'm gone and not here to share more as the community engagement task force moves forward or plans move forward with the with the Gilbert Council any other comments at this time seeing none again thank you for all of your work Melanie appreciate everything that you do in the town and um that concludes this topic thank you so much we will adjourn our study session and we'll be back at 6 for student of the month mik check mik check